这对于从来不宽恕别人的中东来说是一个凶兆。
当我们更多地关注于不宽恕自己时,我们就把注意力转移到自己身上,这样我们怎么能够跨越过去的伤害和过失呢?
When we focus more on the consequences of not forgiving ourselves, we shift the focus to ourselves and how we can move beyond the past hurt and blame.
我可以宽恕,但我不能忘记。这只是“我不宽恕”的另一种说法罢了。
I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive.
因此根据宽恕的第一个定义,上帝不总是会宽恕的。
So God does not always forgive according to the first definition of forgiveness.
宽恕是不附加”如果“或是”但是“的条件的,”如果你改变,我将会原谅你“或”我会原谅,但我绝不会遗忘“都不是真正的宽恕。
" And forgiveness doesn't have "ifs" or "buts" attached, such as, "I'll forgive you if you change" or "I'll forgive, but I'll never forget.
今晚,我不希望我们之中任何人犯这样的错误,这就是为什么我正号召全世界的孩子--和我们今晚在场的人一起开始--宽恕我们的父母,如果我们觉得被忽略,那么宽恕他们并且教他们怎样爱。
Tonight, I don't want any of us to make this mistake. That's why I'm calling upon all the world's children -- beginning with all of us here tonight -- to forgive our parents, if we felt neglected.
今晚,我不希望我们之中任何人犯这样的错误,这就是为什么我正号召全世界的孩子--和我们今晚在场的人一起开始--宽恕我们的父母,如果我们觉得被忽略,那么宽恕他们并且教他们怎样爱。
Tonight, I dont want any of us to make this mistake. Thats why Im calling upon all the worlds children - beginning with all of us here tonight - to forgive our parents, if we felt neglected.
回顾对宽恕的真实需要,我们看到不承认罪行会使我们与上帝疏远。
Looking back at the real need for forgiveness, we see that unconfessed sin can separate us in our relationship with God.
我肯定不指望他会在见到他长期忽视的儿子时会跪地请求宽恕,我以为他的作为和以前不会有什么两样。
I surely didn't expect him to fall to his knees and beg for forgiveness at the sight of his long-slighted son. Nor did I expect him to act any differently than he did.
真心的宽恕,不指望他人的道歉或改变。
Sincere forgiveness isn't colored with expectations that the other person apologize or change.
不要忘记宽恕自己弗雷德里克说:“对有些人来说,宽恕自己是最大的挑战。如果不宽恕自己,自信心便会受到打击。”
Don't forget to forgive yourself "for some people, forgiving themselves is the biggest challenge," Frederic says, "but it can rob you of your self-confidence if you don't do it."
最近Melinda在她的一封邮件中,谈到宽恕在自己的复原过程中所起到的作用,以及在原谅顽固不化的父亲——在她的童年时期,父亲曾对她施虐——的过程中所遭遇的困难。
Recently, Melinda wrote a post about the role of forgiveness in her recovery and the difficulty she has had in forgiving her unrepentant father for abusing her in childhood.
有人带着宽恕指出我不情愿道歉,我因此明白了「对不起」这句话的分量,这是何等的重要!
How important it was to understand the worth of saying "I am sorry" by being told, with forgiveness, that I was hesitating to apologize.
真正的宽恕不是事后的一个行为,而是你无时无刻不坚守的一个态度。
True forgiveness is not action after the fact, it is an attitude with which you enter each moment.
真正的宽恕不是事后的一个行为,而是你无时无刻不坚守的一个态度。
True forgiveness is not an action after the fact; it is an attitude with which you enter each moment.
我不宽恕他的反应,但我理解他的反应。
这和我们自己对伤害模式的宽恕一起来临,最终宽恕所有制造了内在破坏性状态的不匹配生物学之起源。
This is coming hand in hand with our own forgiveness of harmful patterns that ultimately all originate in the mismatched biology that creates an internally destructive state of being.
夏洛克,如果你不宽恕别人,你自己怎能希望得到别人的宽恕呢?
Shylock, how can you hope for mercy yourself when you show none?
学会宽恕、既往不咎是基本的原则。
It is essential that you learn to forgive and let go of your past.
真心的宽恕,不指望他人的道歉或改变。
Sincere forgiveness isn "t colored with expectations that the other person apologize or change."
真心的宽恕,不指望他人的道歉或改变。
Sincere forgiveness isn "t colored with expectations that the other person apologize or change."
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