There is clearly a huge risk in making our decisions about leaders based on appearances, which really do tell us little about what aperson would do when faced with the big challenges of the day.
As Notre Dame officials said earlier, he did get a call from the person posing as Kekua on Dec. 6 but it was to tell him she had not died at all, and to carry on their courtship.
For the first person, I tell them that their goal is to take their family on the road trip of a lifetime, spend as much quality time with their families as they can, and see places they never thought they would see before, but end up at the specified destination.