You do understand that you are critical to the plan, right? (Applause.) And with less than a week to go until Election Day, make no mistake about it: What we all do for these next five days will absolutely make the difference between us waking up on Election Day and asking ourselves, could I have done more, or feeling the promise of four more years.

WHITEHOUSE: Remarks by the First Lady at a Campaign Event

Instead of this fruitless debate about having it all, men and women should focus on what make us happy.

CNN: Men don't have it all either

But it ought to make us all feel ashamed when we talk like we know what we were talking about, when we talk about love.

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